The Danger of Living in Draft Mode I used to live in draft mode. For me, it showed up in my career. I had a goal I desperately wanted to achieve. But I kept it to myself. Because if I gave that goal breath, it would feel real.
Because what if I got there and wasn’t enough? So I stayed in draft mode. It felt safe, but it was heavy. When I finally moved forward, it was a single step: I told my boss. I shared my goal, how I thought I could get there, and I asked for support. And here’s what happened: We had an amazing conversation. He showed me the areas I needed to grow in, including some I hadn’t even considered. And once it was out in the open, everything changed. Within a few years, I had been promoted multiple times. Here’s what I’ve learned: Life in draft mode is exhausting. The story in your head grows scarier than the step in front of you. And most of the time, the moment you finally move… If you’re reading this and thinking about your own draft…
Do one thing: Take a real step. Life doesn’t reward drafts. This is the exact kind of shift I help high performers make inside The Shift Sequence — moving from hidden goals and quiet resistance to clarity, aligned action, and real results. 📌 Learn more about The Shift Sequence But even if we never talk, remember this: The story is always scarier than the step. Stay Curious and Lead A Life of Purpose, John |
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