The step wasn’t scary. The story was.


The Danger of Living in Draft Mode

I used to live in draft mode.

For me, it showed up in my career.

I had a goal I desperately wanted to achieve.
I even had a plan for how to get there.

But I kept it to myself.
I never shared it with my boss.
I never spoke it out loud.

Because if I gave that goal breath, it would feel real.
And real meant vulnerable.

  • What if they thought I wasn’t ready?
  • What if they told me I didn’t have what it takes?
  • And if I’m being brutally honest… I was even afraid of achieving it.

Because what if I got there and wasn’t enough?

So I stayed in draft mode.
- Thinking.
- Planning.
- Revising the same idea in my head.

It felt safe, but it was heavy.

When I finally moved forward, it was a single step:

I told my boss.

I shared my goal, how I thought I could get there, and I asked for support.

And here’s what happened:

We had an amazing conversation.
He wasn’t disappointed or dismissive.
He was excited to help.

He showed me the areas I needed to grow in, including some I hadn’t even considered.
He gave me a path and support to get there.

And once it was out in the open, everything changed.
I wasn’t hiding.
I wasn’t overthinking.
I was acting.

Within a few years, I had been promoted multiple times.
But the real win wasn’t the title.
It was the energy and clarity that came from finally stepping out of draft mode.

Here’s what I’ve learned:

Life in draft mode is exhausting.
You carry the weight of unspoken goals and undone actions.
You trick yourself into feeling productive while you’re really just waiting.

The story in your head grows scarier than the step in front of you.

And most of the time, the moment you finally move…
It’s nowhere near as terrifying as you imagined.

If you’re reading this and thinking about your own draft…

  • The idea you keep revising in your head.
  • The goal you haven’t spoken out loud.
  • The decision you keep delaying.

Do one thing:

Take a real step.
Share it.
Move.

Life doesn’t reward drafts.
It rewards courage in motion.

This is the exact kind of shift I help high performers make inside The Shift Sequence — moving from hidden goals and quiet resistance to clarity, aligned action, and real results.

📌 Learn more about The Shift Sequence
📞 Or book a clarity call here

But even if we never talk, remember this:

The story is always scarier than the step.

Stay Curious and Lead A Life of Purpose,

John

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