One crisp morning, I cracked open my planner and scribbled: "I have a vision, but I'm terrified of committing to it." There I was… A coach, 3 years into my journey. 3 months past hitting a milestone I’d dreamed of for years. Just coming out of a second “strategic planning session” - because I wanted to map out the next big move. The thing is: I crushed those planning sessions. Planned my ass off. Created beautiful charts, vision boards, and to-do lists. But as soon as I stepped back into reality? Poof. There I was again… Adrift. (Metaphorically) Lost as hell. Staring at my vision board like a toddler gazing at abstract art… muttering: “Uhh… how do I actually make this happen? Someone please tell me…” It remains one of the most jarring wake-up calls I’ve ever had. I don’t know about you, but it’s NOT fun to admit you can craft a 10-year plan… but struggle to navigate the next 10 days. This realization has only deepened over the past few years. I’ve come to see agility as one of the Foundational Principles of sustainable success. Why? Because it resonates that strongly with others who’ve been in the game for decades. Like my mentor, who’s been scaling companies and supporting leaders for 20+ years. In a recent phone call, I brought this up and she knowingly said: “Yeah… people can create intricate 5-year plans… but how many can adapt when life shifts overnight?” Brutal. But true. This is why I now have my “North Star” goals tattooed on my brain, but my daily strategy written in pencil. It's not just about crafting a vision. It's about adapting that vision as you go. You cannot just set it and forget it. It’s a living thing evolving with time. How do you respond when life throws a curveball? As it always does. Do you…
Because it determines the quality of the life and business you’ll build. Long-term goals are crucial, but in the trenches? The business is you making countless micro-decisions. It cannot be otherwise. And the more I learn about balancing visionary thinking with nimble execution? The more I realize THIS is the real skill. Which is why you see people spending decades “preparing” for a life transformation… that takes 18 months of focused, adaptive action to achieve. Crafting a compelling vision? That’s step one. It’s your compass. Your North Star. But expecting that vision to manifest exactly as planned? That’s a recipe for frustration and missed opportunities. The magic happens when you can hold two truths:
It’s about having the courage to say: “This is where I’m ultimately headed.” While also asking: “What does the situation in front of me call for right now?” Sometimes, the most direct path to your dream isn’t a straight line. It’s a series of inspired zigzags. Which brings me to an opportunity: If you’re ready to stop simply dreaming and start strategically doing… If you want to craft a vision that excites you AND develop the skills to adapt as you pursue it… I’m offering a 3-session coaching package designed to help founders, entrepreneurs, and leaders like you build that crucial foundation. We’ll dive deep into:
Because at the end of the day, the path to success isn't about having the perfect plan. It's about taking imperfect action, learning as you go, and staying committed to your vision – even as the details shift along the way. Stay Curious and Lead A Life of Purpose, John Your input matters! I'm launching a mastermind next month, and you're invited to be part of its creation. ✅ Take action now:
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